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writes: Dear Cupid,If My Boyfriend says he loves me, but he can't say either way that he wants to split up with me and he has asked to give him three weeks to decide what he wants, does this mean its the end or have I got hope?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (14 March 2006):
 You need to ask him what went wrong with the relationship, you cannot just wait around for three weeks for this man to decide your fate.
If he does have a problem with sex there is help out there for him, and you can try and spice up the bedroom antics but in order to do anything to help you need to know what the problem is.
Dont let him fob you off with not telling you what the issues are, a relationship is a two way thing.
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reader, dipper +, writes (14 March 2006):
dipper is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do love him very much and want thinks to work out, I think he is mixed up, we have not had sex four at lease four months but he is very affectionate in other ways. I dont know if he has a problem having sex
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reader, smeedle +, writes (14 March 2006):
There is hope but why does he want to split up, and why does he need the three weeks to decide.
Do you really want to be given this type of ultimatum, it seems like he is calling all the shots, you need to also look at the relationship and what you are getting and want from it.
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