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He can be hilariously funny but other times acts like he cannot stand me. When I ask what's going on he changes the subject!?

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Question - (4 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok, so short backgroud story and question.

There is this guy i know, i've known him for about a year. Sometimes we get on great, he has a very sarcastic manner, but it suits him if you know what i mean. He can be hilariously funny and really cheers me up.

But then sometimes we can meet, say a week later and he will be quiet and aloof and hardly say anything to me. The fun we had before is forgotten and its almost like he can't stand to see me.

But then of course, the next week he is back to his usual joking self. If i try to ask what the matter was the week before was, he doesnt really answer and changes the subject.

So dear agony aunts and uncles, whats going on???

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (4 August 2008):

sappygirl agony auntHe could be bi-polar. Don't take it personal. It's him and not you.

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A female reader, LouLee United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2008):

LouLee agony auntHmm, family problems? girl problems?

It sounds like he just wants to let his hair down when he's with you. Just wants to have a laugh.

So you bringing up this makes him want to change the subject to something good cos maybe he thinks you're different.

This is how i see it anyway.

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