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writes:I have recently met a man and we got on extremely well. He pursued me through a friend for several months before asking me out. I am divorced with a child, he is divorced (relatively recently) He called it off after only 2 dates saying that he wasn't ready, now he is ignoring me. What does this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): What does it mean? It means he is not interested, period.
And what THAT means is that YOU are not interested in putting up with his behavior either!
Don't waste another moment fretting or puzzling over his behavior. You only went on two dates, so there is very little "investment."
In the words of the old song, "wash that man right out of your hair" and then you'll be free to look for someone who really will appreciate and want to be with you - if that is what you want.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): Sounds like he's one of those guys that like the challenge of the pursuit. He chased you down, dated you and now, doesn't want that. In his eyes, the thrills are over. He's basically ignoring you because he's moved on. He doesn't give a hoot. Guys like this are super-attentive with a keen, unrelenting interest in you—and when the woman is a tough one to get, the more ardently he pursues you. But take note, once you’re hooked, he wants out. These guys are losers and have a hard time committing..so be very, very glad he's ignoring you. You have not lost a lot here, dear. Save all your energies for a guy who is seriously looking and 'wants' you, respects you and takes you just for the beautiful person you are. Don't give this other guy another thought. Happy dating , dear. Now go have fun and don't allow this incident to take you down. Put it in the past but learn from it. Good luck, hun and take care
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