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writes:Hi Aunts and UnclesI had a BF of a year and a month. We were absotely happy in our relationship and everything went great. I love him more than anything, and I know for a fact that he never loved anyone as much as he loves me.This year we went seperate vacations. He went back home to Greece for a week and I went to Colorado to visit my family. We were talking on the phone every day and I couldn't wait to see him again. He asked to pick him up on the airport...so I did. The minute he walked out of there, I thought something was wrong. He was different. Couple days passed by and he was getting little better and I thought everything will be ok, he is just tired after the trip ... what a mistake.On Thursday night, he came by, and he told me he wanted to be single again. He loves me to pieces but he needs to be alone and focus on himself now. He cant give me what I need from him (meaning stronger commitement) and he just cant do it anymore. I was crying my eyes out, I was bagging him to stay that we can change things around. I was so miserable. He was strong about his decision and he said he just cant and that he is very sorry. He stayed next to me for the night and held me all night long telling me how much he loves me and how sorry he is but that this has to be done.There is no one else involved in thisHe is Greek, so it could be a religion issue, but he said its not.I asked him if its me, he said no, its him, he has to be alone and single and do things on his own. I dont understandI dontk now what to doI am absolutely miserable and I just dont know how to act now.I collapsed on Friday and was taken to the hospital. I believe my friend told him about it. he didnt call me, but asked my frien if I was ok and if she can keep eye on me.Please dear aunts and uncles. I love this man more than anything there is in this world! I want him back, but I dont know what to do. I dont know how to act I dont know how to live without being next to him, without hearing his voice and without him holding me !!! I am soooooooo sad I cant help myself!Please anyone!Help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe knows I would!!!! I dont understand ... It has been 5 days and he still didnt contact me
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUnfortunately it has to do something with his father.
they are Greek .. and they went on the trip together. I knew from the begining the father doesnt agree with me ... and I knew this is not goingto be a good thing if they go away together .. and I was right ...
Everyone is telling me to give him time and wait.
i know he loves me ... everyone was shocked. all his friends and family members . everyon was calling me asking m what happened.
I am not sure what is goingto happen. I do hope that he will realise that our lvoe is stronger than his fathers will and he will come back...
But who knows
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUnfortunately it has to do something with his father.
they are Greek .. and they went on the trip together. I knew from the begining the father doesnt agree with me ... and I knew this is not goingto be a good thing if they go away together .. and I was right ...
Everyone is telling me to give him time and wait.
i know he loves me ... everyone was shocked. all his friends and family members . everyon was calling me asking m what happened.
I am not sure what is goingto happen. I do hope that he will realise that our lvoe is stronger than his fathers will and he will come back...
But who knows
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reader, malkomex  +, writes (23 August 2008):
Hi,dear,people have their own feelings which sometimes fear to express even for them selves,I know that even it is difficult,
Leave him alone,let he go on his own track!!
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