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writes:Hi, I am having problems with respect to coming whilst making love to my girlfriend. I have spoken to my doctor about this and he has said that I should stop masturbating which I have done but I am still unable to come with my girlfriend unless I do it myself. This has been the same situation with the last 5 woman that I have been out with since I split up with my long term girlfriend of 13 years. I believe in part that the problem is due to the fact that whilst with my partner of 13 years we had stopped making love many years before we finally agreed to split and thus I have been masturbating myself almost everyday for a good many years and still needing to when with any new partners. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Regards Pat
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): It sounds as if you may have trouble letting someone see you a little "out of control". Have you ever tried masturbating with your GF with you, maybe with her also masturbating, or maybe with her just touching you and talking to you a little? (if you are really shy you could just have her curl up next to you with her head on your shoulder.) If you find you can do it with her next to you, then you can try to move forward little by little to more touching between you while you masturbate, and you might eventually get to a place where you start off by masturbating but then want to finish by making love to her. It would be worth a try!
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