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writes:Ok so here goes...i'm 21 and i've never had a proper boyfriend. Anyway this guy i had been talking to him for a few weeks before he asked for my number (that was on the tuesday and i went on hols for two weeks on the sat and kept texting and stuff) anyway we went on a "date" on sat and kissed and it was ok. He text me this morning (and all wk) and asked if he could see me this wkd i said in the local city he wanted me to go to his house which is in an area i don't know (i said no) and he actually replied that i don't give and all i do is take (after i'd text him saying if all he's after is sex then i don't want to know). i'm a virgin and he's 31 have i done the right thing by ignoring him all day?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your replies...very helpful :-)
i'll prob just move on i'm v.happy single and just want to concentrate on my uni work....Thanks x
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (22 August 2008):
 Well, you came into the city to see him, so that should indicate that you're willing to meet him halfway.
Let this guy know that you are willing to continue to see him, but only in public. If you do not live alone, you could even offer to have him over to your place, with the understanding that other people will be there at the same time. If he's just looking for a quick score he won't be interested in either deal and you'll probably get nothing but complaints from him, in which case it's time to give him the brush-off. If he agrees and does tone things down, then you can take it from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): If he's that critical over you being uncomfortable with the date being in an unfamiliar place, then he's probably trouble. That would be a big red flag in my book. You've done the right thing. There are better options out there. Move on!
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