A
male
age
41-50,
*hasi
writes:we were in love for 3 years. we knew each other very well and our families too were well aware of the affair.. We got engaged in may 07 and 4 months before our marriage[supposed to take place in Nov07] she backed out from the marriage since she wanted to pursue her higher studies after her Bachelor of Commerce.. In fact she was the college topper in bcom.. She told she was no more interested in this relationship..I am a Banker.. Now i've got a proposal from another girl which is pending for my nod.. Still can't forget my old affair.. Can't beleive what has happened over the last few months.. What do i do???
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Would it have been impossible for her to persue her higher education as a married woman? I understand that she wants to do that and if you wouldn't have a problem with it she could still have done it, right? I'm asking this because it seems to me that maybe she used that as an excuse and the real reason is that she for some reason decided she didn't want to marry at all at this point. Would it be poosible for you to wait a couple of years with marrying? Did you ask her if that would make any difference for her regarding you? If not, I think you'd better move on and find someone else. Maybe not the first that comes along though, because you are still grieving your previous relationship, but there will be other good, loving women out there!
Best wishes, keep us updated!
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