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writes:Has anyone gotten back together with a partner when they fell out of love? Also has anyone fallen back their sexual attraction to their partner ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Bobbyjo  +, writes (23 September 2007):
 I broke with my ex 2 years ago and it took me ages to get over it. I really pined for him and would of done anything to get him back. He was with new girl and really loved her and the pain for me was awful - something I never wanna feel again. So 2 years on and him and his gf have split up. He sees me out one night and starts talking and even askes if we could patch things up. I dont have any feelings for him anymore but believe I cold fall in love with him again. But I said no as all those months of hurt would of been for nothing and I couldnt risk him making me feel like that again.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 If you were the one who fell out of love and lost your attraction, I would say it's never gonna be there for you again. It's like trying to put the toothpaste back into the tube, after you've squeezed it all out. I just don't think it happens. You may miss the comfort of knowing you had someone you could count on, you might miss little things about them in general, but if you truly didn't feel sexual attraction for them when you broke up, it will probably never come back.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
 i think ex's are ex's for a reason.
when you're not with them, the anxiety that you are missing out on somethings becomes greater than the memories of why you split up to begin with. when you see an ex, the emotions and feelings come flooding back but they are short lived because you ar reminded why things went wrong.
its not a good move to try and rekindle broken relationships.
best of luck
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