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30-35,
*larax
writes:Guys utter confuse me. Lately I've had a bunch that have suddenly started liking me. Only one really caught my interest cause he is so funny and random, like me! Anyway, I recently made this new guy friend (I will call him Cay). Cay normally listens in on my conversations with my friends and looks at me frequently. A few days ago, I randomly grabbed my friends ribbons and we played "tug a war" with the ribbon and my friend was desperately trying to get it back but I was resisting. All of a sudden Cay starts tickling me by my sides and my stomach. I bursted out laughing but continued keeping a firm grip on the ribbon. He smiled and praised the fact I didn't let go and then later tickled me again. I laughed and brought my legs to my chest so he couldn't tickle me anymore. Eventually I let me friend win, Cay wanted me to bump fists with him and stared deep into my eyes. I told this story to one of my friends who has a lot of guy friends and she claims he was flirting with me. Then again my being a clueless bum, I have no idea.Today, he talked with me for a little bit and laughed when I was being random with a smile on his face. He also kept looking at me and held eye contact with me. I also caught him looking at me when he was touching his face while he was looking at me (whatever that means). He also gave his presentation today and looked right at me the majority of the time. His face also was a little red at moments, but he talked normally. One of his friends also was asking questions about myself. Later on in class, I mentioned that the presentation (we got to choose what to present) I was going to give was so random. When my friends asked what my topic was Cay exclaimed, “Me!” with a silly grin on his face. Lol no I wasn't planning on give a speech about him! One of my friends stared at me really weird, but I just shrugged it off and sarcastically replied to Cay, "Sure...".So based on what I have mentioned does he like me as a friend or more? I'm sorry for this being very long, but I like to give you a better idea of why I am confused.
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reader, Blod  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 I reckon there's a pretty good chance that he fancies you. It's hard to tell for definite because every guy is different. If you want to know for sure, then ask him.
But he's showing a lot of signs that he could like you: staring at you, finding excuses to touch you, messing about and generally drawing attention to himself. Then again, he could just be a friendly guy who wants to get to know you better.
I'd say he's trying to attract your attention and people don't do that for no reason. Most people are specific in who's attention they're after. He wouldn't be doing this if he wasn't interested in you. I reckon you've caught his eye. And I wouldn't be surprised if he doesn't actually know how he feels. So it's difficult to tell if he wants to be more than friends. To be honest, you probably confuse him too!
Hope I've helped.
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