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writes:here goes..i posted here a few days ago about a date i went on and got mixed signals from the girl..me and this girl went on somewhat of a blind date..we hit it off..the night i got home from the date she was texting me how i was an amazing guy and how she couldn't wait to get to know me..the next day she was texting me all day with smiley faces, askin how my day was, telling funny stories about the date, ect..she was coming on strong and i really liked her, so i went with it..i told her that i really liked her and i was thinking about her and i would love to see her again soon..anyway, a day after our date the texts and calls kinda stopped..we spoke back and forth on text a lil and she said how she really wants to try and focus on getting to know me and not rush, ect..i agreed completely..haven't heard from her in 4 days..so last night i decide to keep it light and just send a "how are you" text and ask her if she wants to grab a coffee tom morning..she texts back that she is busy helping a friend move , ect with a little "sorry" at the end..what the hell is going on here..i mean i heard of playing it cool, but this not how a girl who calls me amazing and loved the date acts! she went from talking to me and texting me all the time to nothing at all and blowing me off in a matter of 4 days..
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): i agree aunt...i just never really get blown off that much lol..and how is it that after the date she was textig me til 2 in the morning how great everything was and how amazing i was? even the next morning, she was texting good morning, how is your day, we had fun last night, i'm really thinking about you, ect..i mean where does that come from if she isn't into it? i don't get it
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): i agree aunt...i just never really get blown off that much lol..and how is it that after the date she was textig me til 2 in the morning how great everything was and how amazing i was? even the next morning, she was texting good morning, how is your day, we had fun last night, i'm really thinking about you, ect..i mean where does that come from if she isn't into it? i don't get it
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (4 January 2009):
hmm well maybe she was helping a friend move. or maybe she just was not as into you as you were into her. personally i would just tell the guy instead of getting his hopes up. so maybe you just need to text her again and ask if she wants to go on another date? dont say a day,time,etc. just say another date.
if she says yes then you know she is into you, if she makes up an excuse then she isn't into seeing you again. then you have to just move on. you can't force things.
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