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Good friends or something more, I can't tell anymore?

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Question - (19 October 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So I work with this girl. I originally got her number to text her a bit when I was bored.So we started texting each other a bit. Then we would text all day long. Then we ended up talking every single night and became really good friends.

I started developing feelings for her and one day I told her. When I told her she just said "why me? I'm nothing special. That wasn't exactly the answer I was expecting so I was kind of upset. We remained friend and we got closer and closer.

So one day at work she told me she needed to talk to me. She told me that she really likes me and when I told her that i had feelings for her she just wanted to tell me she loves me but she is a coward. She told me she wasn't ready to date anyone right now. I would love nothing more than to start dating her but she is my best friend. So if nothing ever happens I always have her as my best friend.

I would get 100 text messages from her and I'd talk to her every single night but now I barely get 10 and I talk to her once or twice a week. At work we still goof with each other and have a great time but it just seems like something is wrong.

So I guess my question is What do I do? Thanks in advance

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