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writes:What is the average amount of times per week to have sex aged 22 and 25 after being together for two years?as I am paranoid my boyfriend does not want it very often, he says I am worrying for no reason. I think he doesn't fancy me any more, he says it does bt its only natural for sex not to be as exciting after being together two years. Its only two years though?? I don't get it. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 If your sex life isn't to your satisfaction then you and your boyfriend need to work on keeping both of you content. No matter what the "norm" is in his head. Who cares how often others have sex, what matters is that YOU want more sex!
Personally I'd be wanting no less than at least 5-6 times a week after no matter how many years. And if my partner had as high of a sex drive as me then I don't think we'd slow down just because it's "natural".
As for the natural part, I don't know about that being true. You either let the sex life fall into a rut or you don't. Me and an ex were going on the second year like bunnies. Falling into a rut is not something that is bound to happen, it is something you LET happen. Your boyfriend seems perfectly happy with less sex, you don't. So thats the problem, now you need to talk to him and sort this out to a way where you can both be satisfied.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): the average is 2-3 times a week during their twenties but this is the average not the rule (cosmo source)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): Hi there is no "average" amount. Perhaps stop worrying about it and talking about it as it may be turning him off and not help the matter. Just relax and go with the flow.
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