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writes:Hey everyone,i have a dilemma!! I have been with my boyfriend 6 years and he might be going to uni to study in singapore! it wont be before summer, but im trying to figure out whether to go with him or not. Its hard coz my sister is pregnant and so is my best friend and i wana stay with them and see their children grow, yet theres a small part of me that is thinking of going with my bf to support him too- I am not sure about our future together so in a way thats why i have doubts....i also have a lovely flat and dont particulalry wanna give it up- i dont have a job tho so dont really have an restrictions...except maybe telling my dad!Help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, i thought about going for a few months, bt im renting a flat so to move out ev n go for a couple months would b a waste really and i have to look for another place etc...and we have had long distance relationships for most of our 6 years so it would be ok, just havent done it this far!!
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 You have to ask yourself if your relationship is strong enough to endure the whole, long distance thing. Can he be trusted on campus far, far away, where there are lots of other single, college girls looking for guys to party with and hang out? If you feel comfortable enough in your relationship then don't go. But you need to be prepared to face the possibility that it could be the end of what you have. In that case, you have to ask yourself if your friends and family will be enough? Only you can decide what's best. Hope it works out.
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reader, xHx +, writes (18 January 2009):
 My advice would be go and try it for say a month if you hate it you can say youve tried, but 6yrs is along time to not try it!
Im sure your family will be supportive!
best of luck! x
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