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writes: I am a 23 year old girl who has a huge crush on my 27 year old assistant manager, who is a girl. I have never done anything with girls nor do I think she has. I work in a small department with only 6 other people. We flirt all the time, more when we are not at work. I made her a cd of rap because that is what she likes but at the end put a few country songs on that remind me of her and when I drove her car to get lunch the country song was on. This was in Florida where I was an intern, now my internship is over and I am moving back home which is about 3,000 miles away. I really want to move back mostly for her but I don't know how to admit this and she said before I left that I better come back soon and that she loved me. I didn't know to take this as a friend or more than that. If I move back to Florida money will be tight but for me it would be worth it for her. And I may be getting a job in month at this same place. If I admit I like her and it's not the same it could ruin the job, but if I get the job and she does like me it could be really awkward. HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): I think you should really just tell her how you feel, as hard as that will be. Being honest is generally the best thing to do. Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): Changing your life in a drastic way on a whim isnt a good idea. Speak to her and if she feels the same then maybe you can think about moving there.
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