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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey there! So I used to be friends with benefits with this guy about a year ago but then I started to catch feelings for him and somehow we drifted apart. Now, months later, we ran into each and started keeping in touch again. He is still very attracted to me and I am to him although I don’t have any feelings for him anymore. I find it hard to trust him and know what he wants. The other day I hang out with him and we had fun but we ended up kissing and he wanted to have sex but I told him that I didn’t want that and that it wasn’t a good idea. He agreed with me. He cuddled me and we watched a movie together with the occasional kissing and we had a lot of fun. It felt so good. He was resting his head on mine and we were so comfortable with each other. He kissed me on the lips when he dropped me home which was surprising because that was the first time he’d actually done that. I’m not gonna give him sex because I don’t want to put myself in that situation again. I thought he would lose interest in me when he realized I’m not gonna sleep with him but he still keeps in touch nearly every day and is very bothered when he sees me with other guys. I can tell he cares about me, if I’m upset he can read me like a book and he would call me at once to talk about it and try to make me feel better. He’s very loving but I’m not sure what’s with all the kissing and cuddling. He never did those things back when we were FWBs. I’m not sure what he wants from me but my friends believe he wants something more than just FWB but that he’s too cowardly or afraid to tell me how he feels. I was teasing him about a girl he used to like and he said I promise you I’m not in love. Do you think he’s leading me on? Or does it seem like my friends could be right? I’m attracted to him for sure but I don’t have any strong feelings for him because I’ve been burned before.
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