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female
age
30-35,
*abygirlteenlove
writes:Me and my boyfriend just started dating and we already wanna break up. You see we been friends and we started to grow love for each other. When he asked me to be his girlfriend, I thought it was the best thing to happen to me...WRONG!! We seem to argue all the time. He even told me he's in charge of the relationship. He makes me feel like I'm always in the wrong. He treats me like crap and I feel horrible about it. Then he turns around and tells me he's sorry, and he never meant to hurt me and he loves me and he shows me he cares. But as soon as its all over its back to the arguing. I just want to know if I should leave him or stay with him. Because I love him but I don't want to be controlled. Please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, imp of high noon  +, writes (29 June 2010):
He says he's in charge of the relationship, and for some couples that might fly, but clearly not for you. You need to be straight about this, you're your own person and you don't belong to him, you're his partner not his pet. His apologies and all the rest are just another form of control he's exercising, because he knows it works. No one but you can decide whether to stay or go, but he needs to know that this can't go on and things need to change, and if he's not willing to commpromise then your decission gets a little bit easier.
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