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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend is very ticklish. It is a bit of an issue when it comes to foreplay because I can't hardly touch her without tickling her.Most other women I've been with seem to respond well if we're kissing, and I then start to run my tongue along their neck, nibble their earlobes, etc. (I normally only do this if the kissing seems to be going well) With my girlfriend, she's so ticklish I can't touch her neck or ears because she jumps back. Even touching her legs or arms will often set her off. About the only areas on her body that aren't ticklish are her chest (thank God!) and her genitals (thanks again!)I haven't been able to find a reliable way to touch her that turns her on. Normally, I don't have much choice but to go straight from kissing to touching her breasts and genitals. But, if she's not starting to get in the mood from kissing, going straight to the breasts and genitals seems like too much and she doesn't like that either. When I asked her what turned her on, her only suggestion was touching her breasts.She also doesn't seem to like it when I talk dirty to her, unless she's already somewhat in the mood. She said that she likes it if I rub my body against hers (e.g. if I have an erection), but only if she's already turned on.Any ideas on other forms of foreplay, etc. that might help get her in the mood when starting from an arousal level of zero or near zero? I'm at my wits' end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2010): I guess maybe when you start kissing her, just hug her tightly and firmly (not choking!! lol) and then maybe start holding her ass and squeeze them a bit then go to her breasts... etc. No more light touching. Keep trying and talking to her about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Well, it seems to me that tickling comes from a light touch, so I would suggest a slightly stronger touch. Other than that, what about porn? Or is she adverse to that unless she's already turned on as well?
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