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writes: I am 20 and I have never been attracted to a guy. I went out with this guy for a few weeks recently - he was quite nice and we had a good time but i just didn't like him as a boyfriend (as opposed to liking him just as a friend). Seriously I've never been sexually attracted to any guy I've ever met and i'm afraid I'm on the road to being a 25 year old virgin or something. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2005): When my wife and I watch these tv dating shows, I just shudder. I cant imagine having to go back to sorting through all these types of women who just have no appeal to me. Even if what does turn you on is some superselective mix of qualities that arent clear to you at the momement the right person is out there for you. Even 1% of your cities population is a lot of guys to choose from. 20 is way way too early to despair. If you give up and stop looking you will never find the right guy. Just keep at it and eventually it will become more and more clear to you what features and qualities you do find arousing....
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2005): There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, some people don't have sex until they are in their sixties. You will find the right boyfriend for you, it just takes time to find him! When you do get a boyfriend, it will be a while before you find your body becomes turned on for sex. You won't die a spinster, I promise, just enjoy life until he comes along!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2005): hey maybe your a late bloomer or something? or are you secretly attracted to girls...? its a tough question but you seriously have to consider it. maybe you need to sit down and ask yourself what you want from life right now because theres a chance that your preoccupied with more important things in life. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2005): You are still kind of young, so I wouldnt fret too much over this right now.. I know its a clique but maybe you havent met the right guy.. not everyone gets excited over the mere glance of the opposite sex! It takes more, on a much deeper emotional level for some of us. Of have you thought that maybe you dig chicks!! Thats not so bad either :) Have a think x
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