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writes: My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months.The last 3 months his divorce proceedings have begun and since then he's been a completely different person.He is angry, moody and distant.He told me that he wants to spend time alone and can't function in a relationship but he told me that doesn't mean that we should break up.We hardly meet but talk on the phone quite often.Do you think I should break up.It's very hard for me too because I feel very neglected and rejected.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): Divorces tend to do that to people, dear. (been there, done that!) It's puts them on edge and it can be nervewracking. It's not easy. Let him have his space to work this through and when he's ready to be with you, he'll let you know. Just keep yourself busy with good friends, hobbies, interests and visit with people close to you like family memebers for support and encouragement. Stay positive, stay strong and remain happy. It will all come together in the end...just give it time. Take care.
Hugs, Irish
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