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Fancy a girl at my work. What should I do?

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Question - (16 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2011)
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello everybody!

Okay I'm looking for some help here on what I should do.

I'll give you a bit of background first. I split up with my fiance about a year ago and went through a really bad period. I was really low and I got myself involved in a rebound/volatile relationship that didn't last very long.

Anyway, I decided to concentrate on myself, and look after myself. About 8 months have passed and I'm in a much better place. I'm an attractive guy and I get offers all the time, but I've been declining because I didn't want to get involved in another relationship and I've lost a lot of my confidence.

But there's this girl who's a rep that works where I work and she's really nice. I know she's single. She split up with her boyfriend a few months ago. I know she knows that I like her as she's caught me staring at her. She always smiles and says, 'Hi'. I really want to ask her out but I don't know how I should go about it. Should I just walk up to her in work and ask her? But I don't want to embarrass her, or should I fb her? I'm not sure what to do. What should I do?

Thanks in advance.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2011):

(",) oooh.. this is like in a movies..

does she knows u at all...? if u both are an acquittance,why don't u juz ask if she would like to have breakfast or lunch with you first.. as a colleague kinda thing.. let her get to know u a bit more before u actually ask her out for a date.. but don't wait too long for that 'date' or she might think u r juz a friend..

all the best (",)

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