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age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've just returned from a brilliant week's holiday, during which time I got talking to our Travel Rep and ended up spending a night out with her. She's young, gorgeous and has a lovely personality. Furthermore, she's almost at the end of the holiday season and will soon be returning home. I realise there's a whole theory about travel reps and the idea that they like to "play the field". Unfortunately, I'm not into one night stands and after about 2 hrs of flirting and foreplay, I didn't have the guts to see it through. We've spoken since then and still get on great, but I don't know what to do next. I'm an idiot for believing in love at first sight, and realise it's way too early to know whether she's the one for me. But equally, I don't want to never see her again, though fear this may be the case unless I tell her how I feel. Any advice please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): Cheers guys for all your advice. I made contact with her and the moment I had returned home she basically told me "I'm a slag who f***s all my customers". Funny how the truth comes out once you've filled the customer feedback questionnaire out. Ah well, 50/50 and all that. More to life than girls like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): You have had what is called a holiday romance. They are beautiful things, but they are usually best left on holiday. Make contain with her, if she wants you too. But I personally think you won't get back what you had on your holiday, that's my guess.
But tell her how you feel, or you will regret it for many many years to come. What do you have to loose - but more importantly - what do you have to gain?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): (smile) No, it is not universally true what you "hear" about travel reps, anymore than airline stewardesses. If you are truly "smitten" and interested, why not keep in touch? Hey, she is real people, too. She may actually even have liked you as a person, as opposed to a "customer". (lol) Only one way to find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): Tell her how you feel and take it from there! She'll either be interested or she won't! 50/50 chance and all that.
Phil
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