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reader, sjwcool  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 first the sad reality is if you take things further you will only end up hurting yourself. trust me your first time you will remember for the rest of your life so, I would make it with someone who cares about you too! how you feel how you think someone who can be patient and take it slow esp being a virgin the inside walls of your vagina will strech often causing pain. if he doesn't care that he's hurting you it can really hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): Oh my god! This sounds such a cliche; The pupil falling for the driving instructor! Oh well if you are both single then it's up to you.
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reader, jadieb  +, writes (14 February 2007):
jadieb is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry guys the reply saying thanks for the replies was off me i forgot to log in first
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): Thanks for the replies. Im not sure if i will sleep with him first time around i dont want to seem like i will just sleep with any one at any time. Think the thing that makes it harder is he knows me and i feel i have his respect. I feel like i get on with older men as iv had to grow up through family problems etc and some guys my age dont seem mature enough My virginity does mean something to me maybe i need to figure out if i want to lose it on some fun.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 February 2007):
 How do you feel about losing your virginity? For some it's something theyre willing to throw away just to get rid of the damn thing and for others they want to be with someone they care about. I'd suggest going for the latter attitude but if you want to sleep with your instructor there's really no reason why you shouldn't. You're both adults and capable of making your own decisions. If you do decide to do it though, make sure you're clued up on contraception etc first.
CD
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (13 February 2007):
 Just because you take a fancy to someone doesn't mean you need to jump right in the sack with them.
You should cherish your virginity.
I have heard both sides of the coin where those that have given up their virginity prematurely and those who have kept their virginity until marriage.
In almost all cases where a girl gives up her virginity early there are regrets and a measure of guilt.
On the other hand when I hear of cases where girls have kept high moral standards and kept their virginity till after marriage it seems always to result in a high measure of pride and satisfaction.
Of course you are going to do what you are going to do but I do hope you make the right choices for you. Doc.
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