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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:the guy i was dating used to call all the time and we'd have great conversations. in the beginning he was the one actually calling me the most and i didn't realize how dependent i was on his calls and our talks until he started to do it less and less. When he hadn'tbeen calling on his own for a little while, i'd call him. he'd always return my calls but he hasn't made the initiative lately himself...and i'm wondering if he's disinterested. i even asked if he was and he said he wasn't. he keeps saying we should get together but it doesn't happen. i don't want to call too much, i'm not a nagger on the phone...its annoying. so i don't know what to do. i want to gain his interest back. Reply to this Question
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reader, lanaguy  +, writes (23 October 2007):
 maby u should not call him then,if he doesnt call in a few days then call him,maby instead of calling txt him,he will think y isnt she ringing me..maby he realised that he was calling u alot more then u were so he wants to back off a bit to c if u will ring him as much as he rang u,if u dont ring him that often then he might think that u dont care that much and will keep doing it more..i dont know what kind of guy he so it is hard to answer..there is alot of options for this 1..but remember that if he loves u he will always be there for you and will always wanna talk to you no matter who calls who and if he does love you he should show it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): STOP calling him please. This is your only chance. Men hate it, trust me. Give him space. He'll come round like a puppy. But you must STOP contacting him. And NEVER ask him if he is ''disinterested'', NEVER put yourself down. Try it and let us know what happens. Best of luck.
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