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writes:What does it feel like to lose your virginity?I'm a smaller girl, and came close to losing it once, but it hurt too much for him to completely penetrate me, so I asked him to stop.I've heard it's painful, but I've heard it described to be enough to make you cry, and also barely a sting. I know it's different for everyone, but miss's, if you could describe the pain intensity for you, or offer some kind of analogy? I'd really like to know just how terrible it really is. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs.  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Hi there,
Sometimes it depends if your body is sexualy ready to have sex, then that makes it ethier hurt or not hurt,
for me i knew my body was ready, as i was becoming incredibley horny, and my body just really wanted it to happen,
but with the right guy, ,then when that guy came along, we had sex and it onli stinged a little bit, it wos like a little pinch, i bareley felt it.
but yeah you shall no when ur ready then you will no how much it will hurt,
but serouisly i thougth "omg im scared, i dont want it to hurt" then tbh i thought, why wos i affraid of that lol x
hope all goes well x
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (4 October 2008):
 Everyone is diffrent because everyone has diffrent pain thresholds but trust me its not as painful as you imagine it to be,just relax.
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reader, jstar92 +, writes (4 October 2008):
 In my opinion, it's not terrible at all. Everyone worries that it hurts but if you're thinking of losing it, there are things you can do to stop it hurting so much.Foreplay, especially fingering can make it hurt less, Foreplay helps loosen the part inside that breaks, it's just like poking a tight piece of plastic after a while, it becomes less dense, its the same thing for a womans virginity. Staying relaxed is a good tip as well, the more you strain, the more painful it will be Personally when i lost it, i didn't feel the pain. I think the worst thing was that i could smell blood from me afterwards, but don't worry about that :).xox
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