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anonymous
writes:Hello to all! I'll try to make a long story short. I have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. Our relationship has been very difficult and there has been a lot of bad as much as there has been good. Lately we just havent been the same. We barely even talk as much as we use to. We argue constantly and he is sooooo jealous. There has been many occasions where i have wanted to break up but i just didnt have the courage to becuase i felt like i'll regret it later on and i'll just end up with him again. About 2 weeks ago, i find out my ex is back in town. The stry between us is that we went out for about a month and everything was great but he had to move away. That was the reason of our seperation. There wasn't an official break up. A couple days ago we caught up to eachother and i had this weird feeling inside as if all my feelings came back. I try not to flirt because i'll feel like a cheater if i flirt. I dont know what to do. Would i be wrong to break up with my boyfriend and talk to my ex again?
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reader, kate08 +, writes (2 November 2008):
I think sometimes you have to make decisions that you follow your heart and your stomach as well. I know that in the past i had a boyfriend that was amazing and i went back to him and he did the same moved away i would go for it. If your ment to be with your long distance boyfriend you will find him again....hope it helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): It wouldn't be "wrong" - why would spending time with someone you care about be wrong? - but how long is your ex going to be back in town? A week? A month? After that, your ex would become your new long distance boyfriend and many of the problems in your current relationship may show up in your renewed one with your ex; the vast majority of long distance relationships don't work out and you might be better suited to dating a local guy.
If you do get back with your ex, I wouldn't recommend telling your boyfriend that, as it would probably be a blow to his ego. If you guys had as many bad times as good, he will likely feel the same way and you can stay amicable.
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