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Ex-Professor and I, have grown quite close. Are these signs that he is interested in me?

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Question - (23 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2009)
A female Philippines age 30-35, *hampilyn writes:

I gave a gift to my ex- professor, actually there were 3 gifts, a box of brownies, a box of caramel sticks and a gift wrapped, which contained a Parker pen and a note written ''remembering you this season... thanks for being nice'' my name, and my cellphone number, and a call me smiley. when I gave it to him, he told me ''thank you, that's very nice of you''... he knows that I like him, and I think he's interested.

he seems interested because he always look my way, and he knows that I like him by signs, and when we had a conversation he was looking at my eyes and smiling all the while, and he blushes, and he always mentions my name when we say hi, and sometimes he'll sit on the benches where we can see each other, he'll read his book and then look at me, then I'll look at him then he'll look away, I saw him smiling to himself.

After I gave him the gift, I didn't see him the next day. I was afraid he wouldn't reply, but at night time, around 9pm, (wednesday, I gave him the gift on tuesday noon) he gave me 2 text messages. he thanked me for the gifts, and he said it was very nice of me, and that "hope you're well and see you soon!" the next message said, "sorry, this is (insert his nickname), by the way.", and I gave a reply saying, you're welcome sir.

everything is going well..... the next day, he approached me and we talked for about 2o minutes.

the day after, he approached me too, we talked for about an hour. we talked about our own siblings, family etc. and at the end of the conversation, he told me "do you mind if I tell you? you look very nice today."

then the first monday of the vacation I text-ed him, saying hi, and if he's enjoying his vacation, also I put his nickname, and said I hope you don't mind that I call you (insert nickname). then when he replied, he said, hi! yes, (nickname) is fine. I'm ok, just doing some last-minute errands. How are you?~~~~~~~~~ then we exchanged about 6 messages, I even asked him if I'm disturbing him, but he answered me with, I'm glad to hear from you. also, the last 2 messages he gave me were with smileys. :)..... he told me what he's doing like, dropping some presents at my aunt's place, and that he's going to a particular province the next day...

so.... what do you think? does he like me???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009):

Sounds like you both being kind of bashfull and going slow. I think thats wise, you can never be sure and this is the kind of relationship you can't rush. Maybe you can talk to him about something you know he likes, and almost casually slyly drop a hint that you 2 should go together sometime. Or find a problem you have and talk to him about it, telling him you appreciate him for talking it over with you and hug him. you can go off his responces to see his intentions. lucky you, i think you should just happen to bump into him at these events, being VERY casual and i really advice you keeping the relationship quiet, others opinions could break this up!

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