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36-40,
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writes:Hey,just a quick question.. My ex is in town for the next week, and I was wondering if it is ok for me to call him. He knows I am here obviously, and hasn't contacted or done anything..I leave on tuesday to visit my boyfriend who lives in another city.. So i would like to know if it is appropriate, just to meet up or if I should suggest a meet up until then...thnx
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (23 October 2011):
 He hasn't contacted you - I think that speaks volumes. Do you want to be the one, who puts themselves in a position to be rejected and humiliated over a meeting with an ex of all things? Keep your dignity and forget this man. If he wanted to see you, he would be the one to contact. Either way, he is an ex. You may miss him and want to know what is happening in his life, but you need to stop yourself sometimes for your own good. Exes should be out of your life as they complicate things.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 October 2011):
 Why not ask your boyfriend? I'm guessing that he won't be too happy.
This guy is your ex. You don't contact exes when you have a boyfriend. How would you feel if your boyfriend contacted his ex? What if he meets her?
Nostalgia has no place in romance except fond memories.
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