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36-40,
*evin33
writes:Hey everyone, so an update on my girlfriend leaving me a couple weeks ago after 5 years. Listen to this...after 5 days she found someone online facebook who she randomly addeded. He hit on her saying how hot she was and she fell for it. She met with him and now she likes him a lot. They are seeing each other now. I dont know how she can put 5 years in the past so fast. We broke up because she wanted to see what else was out there. I treated her so respectfully and cared very much. I was very close with her parents. We were deeply in love. Even last week we met for the last time and she cried holding my hands, telling me how much she loves me and that it is hard for her. I am 23 and she is 21. We are highschool sweethearts and our first everything. I dont know how her parents are ok with this. Her friends are astonished and some have lost respect. She even went so far on valentines day as to send me a text that she sent to him. Saying" hey baby, i just got off work, meet me in 5 minutes, i cant wait its valentines xoxox" She sent it to me to make me jealous because when I found out, I told her not to speak to me. I know this guy is a player because he hits on so many girls. Its just hard becuase I respected my ex for almost 2 years before becoming intimate. She wanted to wait until marriage and I was all for it. She has CHANGED into someone totally different. She is not the one I fell in love with. I miss her so much, yet she is moving on. I always felt as though we are for each other, and she always did also. Nothing ever went wrong in the relationship. Im just hurt becuase I cant stand the idea of him holding her and being with her. I cant believe that she would throw away that connection between us and take a chance.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (17 February 2009):
forget about what she is doing with her life now. even if it has only been 5 minutes.
you concentrate on yourself. go out with your friends, have fun. forget her!
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reader, MummyCaz +, writes (17 February 2009):
Yeah definately keep busy, see ur mates, enjoy ur life for now :)
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reader, Kevin33 +, writes (17 February 2009):
Kevin33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the advice guys...im definitely going to move on with my life, hit the gym a little. Time will tell. Ill be open, dont know what I would do if she came back,but for now, im just gonna try hard, keep myself busy and move on.
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reader, MummyCaz +, writes (17 February 2009):
Just me having a guess but i bet she met this guy before she broke up with you, thought it seemed all so new and exciting, didnt want to cheat on u so broke up with you cos she was so attracted to the new and excited feeling.Dont lose hope just yet, she may realise what shes missing very soon and want u back. Its just whether u are prepared to take her back if she does want u back?
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