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Everytime something goes wrong boyfriend puts all the blame on me

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Question - (28 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So today my boyfriend and I were suppose to hang out, but his parents told him he couldn't hang out with me until he was done with his homework. He told me it was going to take forever to complete his work, so I told him that we didn't need to hang out today because I also had things to do as well. So then he texted me calling me a bitch and a fake. He also accused me of having other boyfriends as well, when in fact I stopped talking to all my friends because he gets mad whenever I talk with my friends. Also, just last week he kicked me several times just because i accidentally scratched his ear because i had fake nails on. I didn't mean to, and he exploded on me. Everytime something goes wrong he has to blame all his problems on me. And he always cusses at me too and i've told me so many times how it makes me feel when he does that, and he apologizes but he continues to do it. What do you guys think?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010):

Why are you still with this guy?

What if the behavior escalates to something a lot more violent and abusive?? It is clear this guy has serious anger issues, calling you a bitch for no apparent reason is a deal-breaker to me.

Wipe your feet on this loser, dump him and find someone worth your time.

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A female reader, kirra07 Canada +, writes (29 November 2010):

I think he's a lousy, abusive, controlling boyfriend and you could do much better. Break up with him, go back to talking to your friends, and wait for someone to come along that will treat you right.

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