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writes:There is this guy who is 11 years older than me. He calls me and wants to spend time with me and recently my boyfriend broke up with me because of him. I really want to be with this guy but he is sending mixed signals. I dont know how to tell him how I feel I am kind of afraid of the results. Help me find a way to talk to him. Everytime I try to say something I get real nervous and I chicken out.
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reader, Natzz  +, writes (13 August 2007):
The more you dwell on this the harder it will become.your not the first or will be the last but at the end of the day do whats rite for you.age is not an issue.just remember if you fall to get back up and dust your self of and gain your confidance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): If this guy who is 11 years older than you wanted to be with you, you would not have to say anything, he would make it clear....he has called you and wanted to spend time with you? Has that stopped? I don't think he is all that interested in you, but you have a big crush on him, hence your boyfriend sensed that and rightly broke up with you. At your age, I think and 11 year age gap is a bit much, don't you? What could you possibly have in common when you are in school, and he is out and on his own?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): You shouldn't have to feel like you have to tell any guy how you feel if you are not even sure how he feels about you! The reason you are getting nervous is because you feel pressure to prove something to him. Prove that you like him, perhaps. Is he putting you on the spot? Is that why you feel that way? Cause if he is, that's not cool. Somethings very suspicious and WRONG about that. A guy who TRULY likes you, no matter what his age, would not make you feel that way.So next time, if he asks you how you feel about him, tell him that he hasn't even taken you out to dinner or proven his own interest in you enough or you haven't hung out with him enough for you to even know how you feel.And above all, DO NOT pour your heart out to someone who is sending you mixed signals.
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