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writes: I used to have a girlfriend for almost 3 months. Everything was fine until she had her dancing shows. As I thought she would be tired I let her be. When I phoned her up we barely talked. She then dumped me and said that it wasn't working out. As I loved her so mush I ended up hurting myself and even wanted to kill myself. I still really love her and want her back. I don't know what to do please help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2005): dude man ,the same thing happened to me also.I dated a women for 5 months,she acted like i was the best thing since sliced bread,always calling,always wanting to see me,telling me how refreshing i was and how good i was to her,how she never wanted to lose me.Then BAM! outta nowhere,she ditches me,within a day.To top it off she wants nothing to do with me and acts like she hates my guts,for no reason,go figure that one out.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (13 June 2005):
 Breaking up is never easy to do, no matter how old you are. When you love someone and they dont want to be with you anymore, your world feels like its going to end. I can sympathise with you as its happened to me a few times. But you need to get gradually get over the hurt and come back out the other side smiling! give yourself some time to greive over the realtionship, but get yourself out there at the same time with friends and family, they can help to distract you... take up an interest in something to help clear your mind, in time it does become easier, it doesnt feel like it at the time as you cant focus on much, but it does get easier i promise you... once you can see a bit clearer things will seem great again, and you can get out and find yourself a new girlfreind, there are so many more people out there that can make you happy, dont sit and dwell on the past, get out and make yourself happy with others. Take care, all the best.
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reader, robinlovescena +, writes (13 June 2005):
 Relationships are difficult. They don't always go the way that you plan. You start to actually love someone and then they break it off. You cry and cry untill you start to feel as if you can kill yourself. Thats exactly how I felt when my ex told me that he was gay. I was devastated. I thought about slitting my wrist for days. I know what you should do.... If she is going to break up with you, she probably had a good explanation for doing so.You sound like a pretty sensitive guy. You don't find a lot of those these days. You should find yourself a nice, sweet girl that cares about your feeling toward life. The chick that you were dumped by is most likely a person with no feelings toward everyone and everything. Don't put this on yourself. She is not worth it. You will find your soul mate. Dont worry, your still young and fresh. Keep looking. You are gonna make someone be very special one of these days. Trust me!
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