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writes:I've a good friend here in college, she has a boyfriend, but its a long distance relationship. Several of my friends have advised me to make a move on her. My problems here though are several. -She is much more open with me than with her other friends but I don't know if this is simply friendship or something more.-She does have a boyfriend though long distance and she rarely speaks of him at all. I don't know how she feels about him or for that matter how long they have been going out, although I get the impression its simply been a handful of months.-She is one of my best friends here and I don't want to damage that, but at the same time she means so much more to me. "Its not that she is beautiful, she is cute, but its her personality and essence that I love."-It has always been my policy to not make a move on any woman with a boyfriend because to me that just seems wrong. However with her its all I can do to not simply ask "will you be my queen."-Lastly every day now without even thinking about it, I find my feet taking me to meet her. I really don't know what to make of this. Can someone please advise me on which course to take. I have been praying to the Lord for an answer, but so far I have not been blessed with an answer or a hint to light my path.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 November 2010):
 LDRs are complicated enough...it wouldn't exactly be fair for you to tell her you like her and possibly complicate her love life even more. Also, there's the possibility you'll face rejection because she can bare to cross that line in your friendship.
In your defense, I do understand that you do like her, just don't want to stand by and let her pass you up. However, all you can do is tell her that you like her and see what she does with that information.
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