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writes:My Sister swears by horoscope comatibilty and dates only her own matches. I am a sagittarius female,my boyfriend of nearly a year is a leo male. She told me my sex life will be active which is true,she told me to treat him right and he will be your best friend for life which beside the few petty fall outs is also true. She told me that if you hurt him he wont ever forgive and just call it over. Okay,here goes. I havent hurt him,but others have,he is a nice guy and i will not say anything has been bad with us. Certain people who did him wrong he hates beyond belief. It seems to run deep and wont even talk about it. To be truthful he sometimes frightens me,not about any harm to me but others. I have bits of information and seen myself his revenge. Its like he waits until its forgot and the chance is there. He makes no mistake in letting them know who has done it. Also its as if it takes time for him to realise what someone has done. They think its forgot,but its only just happened in his world. Why does he have to let bad memories get to him so bad? I dont follow horoscopes but my sister seems too right about it and when i told her all she said was thats what happens if you torment a lion. Except for this he is all i want.Dont take my story wrong and make him sound like a madman or danger because i have had yo be brief. He is loved by everyone including all my family which is unusual. I feel if we argued they would even take his side because at the end of it he will only argue if the other person is well out of order. Is it normal? I think stars are something you read for a joke but this is so real.He is my age 27.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): ~mishmash,where does it state any of that hyperburble? She is not an infant. SCAREMONGERS are likely to cause more danger than anything else. Where does she say she is afaid to leave,under pressure from family?Infuenced? Until she says it keep your depressing thoughts in your head. It is you who is trying to influence. She has a brain in her head dont underestimate who you dont know. Not everything has to be depressing. I`m just about a leo almost virgo. I have read and thought it was just made up. I have never seen these characteristics written before now, but do I agree? Like one has mentioned already,Leos are far too stubborn?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): leo men are full of trapped anger. passive aggressive. and the main fault needs a mentionis stuborn beyond belief. i have known 2, 2 too many
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): leo male,all over. He may not be waiting to get even or time being a strategy. It sound like delayed realisation. This being a leo trait i dont know about that one, but have seen it before,in people. leos,they are deep, complicated,randy,challenging to the limit,and mine was quiet in a strange way that made me notice,yet not shy or anything.i will admit i wanted him and he didnt even notice me. the worst thing is if i upset him or hurt him, they do not want to forgive and believe me you will know it. i miss mine or i wish he still was mine. what i did would have broke up any couple so i cant blame him for it. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): His vindictive personality scares you...but you you think to some degree you are fated because of your sister's convictions in astrology and because your family thinks he is a good match?
Would you consider breaking up with him over this personality issue? If your sister is using astrology to defend his actions, it is probably to convince you to stay with him. I would not use astrology to guide my decisions about doing (or not doing something.)
Are you perhaps afraid that if you did break up with him, he would take out revenge against you in a similar fashion?
Staying with someone just because you are afraid of what might happen if you broke up is not an ideal relationship. It sounds like your relationship is based on your uncertainty and fear of him, (not so much astrology). Astrology appeals to our sense of uncertainty which is perhaps why you are contemplating its impact in this situation.
If you want to stay with him, why not tell him this behavior upsets you and makes it hard to trust him? Tell him that it scares you because you wonder if he would ever be so vindictive towards you if you upset him unintentially. Obviously you can't change him, only he can do that, but you can't be forced to love and trust someone by motivations of fear and revenge either.
Good luck.
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