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During intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long.

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Question - (9 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *hrissa writes:

Hello there I'm 22 year old male, I'm engaged to my partner of five years. My problem is that during intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long, by this I mean she ejaculates long before I'm ready to and there is a lot of fluid.

Does she just enjoy it so much like she claims or do you think there is a slight medical problem?

I appreciate and respect all answers so feel free to reply thank you!!!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (11 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntWell it seems that your situation is the exact reverse of most every other couple's problem on the planet. Usually, as "satindesire" suggests, the problem is that men typically climax long before their women are much warmer than 98.6. In this inverted reality, you might request that your wife do a bit more to get you going, such as oral or manual stimulation prior to intercourse.

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A male reader, chrissa United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2009):

chrissa is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Sorry the question seems to have been misunderstood or misinterprated, I know obviously about the female body and the matter of fluid, what I didn't explain proprly is that she can ejaculate within 2 minutes of full intercourse, for instance hardly time for me to get in the swing enjoy you may understand it diferently now, sorry for the poor description in the first place. I don't want to sound selfish, just wanna get some satisfaction, if it matters this has only occurred or definitely got worse since she gave birth to our daughter 20 months ago, thank you.

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A male reader, The Gentle Man United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2009):

The Gentle Man agony auntWell i'd say that you are very lucky.

Heres something to try tho.

Bring her to climax first and as quickly as possible without you having sex with her (like rub her or give her oral). Then let her cool down a little over 10mins or something and then start with foreplay and then have sex. She should last longer second time around.

I don't know if that would work with a woman but it does with men.

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