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anonymous
writes: I recently went on a few dates with a girl I like. She is going away for two months and agreed we could pick up where we left off in September. I told her the long hiatus would be difficult for me, and she agreed we could talk over this time. I know I'm more interested than she is, but there is definite potential there and I am willing to wait. I guess I just need some advice going forward. How can I avoid thinking about her too much, and what would a healthy level of communication be? I have a lot going on in my life currently and have to focus on work and avoid being too caught up in this. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2015): Just don't be coming on too strong, you haven't known each other all that long so actually talking every day would be over the top. Why not message/email every 3-4 days and call her every fortnight? Then you will.actually have substantial things to talk about with each other.
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