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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello,i'm having a hard time with this girl i dated back in July.Thing went really good,we kissed and the date was a success.Here comes the tricky part though.2 days after the date she had to leave to go to her hometown for the rest of the summer to work and she her family.I told her i can wait for her if she wants it as well.She agreed on that and we would be together when she would come back.We kept texting until a couple of days ago she started not texting me,i asked her if something is wrong and she replied that she doesn't like the fact that she is away and that she needs time.I agreed on that as well.She told me that she feels bad about herself for some reason and that won't change,i tried to encourage her and cheer her up but got no reply.I didn't text her for 3 days and i initiated a casual conversation and we talked a bit,i asked her again if it's something wrong and she told that a lot is going on lately and she is trying to relax.General stuff not something about the me and her part though.I told her i can leave you to relax and take your time,wanna talk when you come back from you hometown?she told me we'll see.I thought that this was a clear message that she doesn't want to continue on building a relationship with me so i told her that if she doesn't want that i won't pressure the situation more.She didn't reply anything and is still ignoring me..help a bit please,too many mixed messages..
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (8 August 2015):
 Yep, YouWish is right - she wants to end it, but doesn't want to be the one to say it and stick to it.
Just stop texting.
Sorry.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (7 August 2015):
 She is hoping you'll take the hint and leave on your own. It's a cowardly thing to do on her part, and it's immature. You should at any rate take the hint and cut off all communication with her. It sounds like she's with someone else, and even though the date went well with you, she may be going in a different direction. Don't pursue her anymore.
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