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writes: I have been seeing by new bf for nearly 2 months. He is wonderful and very affectionate. We had both been split up from our ex's for about 1 month before we got togther but feel we had both moved on from that ok enough to start seeing each other. But! He has changed his profile to 'in a relationship' put photo's of me on it saying 'my lovely girlfriend' and has gone home this weekend to tell his parents all about me. Why do I feel nervous about this? Should I just go with the flow and feel very complimented by all this attention i am getting, you see my ex never treated me this way and ended up cheating on me. I just don't know how to handle being with such a lovely guy, does it sound like he is in love with me, although he hasn't said the 'words' yet! I am 35 on friday and he has also said he has 3 birthday presents for me! he is 27. Thank you! any advice will be great...Daisychain.....
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reader, daisychain +, writes (14 May 2006):
daisychain is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear Phoebe,
Thank you! Your are spot on I think. I'm just afraid of being hurt again. He called me last night, to tell me he had told his parents about us, he said they asked lots of questions about me, is that good or bad!? Anyway, he also said he misses me and can't wait to see me again, I think I have met a diamond! Thanks again for your good advice.
Love Daisychain xx
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 May 2006):
 Dear Daisy!!
I am so happy for you finding a lovely guy!
You feel nervous because you are afraid of loosing this guy because his Parents will not accept you or believe you are good enough for their child.
It's awful having a bad past, it will all feel strange at first because everything is lovely and you keep expecting him to hurt you as your ex did. But chances are he wont. You don't need to "handle" it, it all comes naturally if it's meant to be. He likes you for who you are, you shouldn't have to do anything to improve your relationship or anything like that because YOU are the person he is in love with, no-one else!
Good Luck, All The Best and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
xxx
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