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*manda-polemania
writes:i left my partner of 11 years due to domestic abuse, we have a 3 1/2 year old son together, i had to get away it was nov 08 that i left, it was really hard listening to all his pleas of seeing his son, over christmas i felt really guilty and gave in and i invited him over to my mums house on christmas day,he behaved him self said he was really sorry so from there i let him see his son more often. we were in council property he was going to be evicted so he said to me if i gave in my notice he would move out so i could return to the house! he wanted me back and because i could not just forget and go back to him the arguments all started again. he kept thretening to take my son away,threating to harm me or kill me, he turfed my dog out on the street, he drank more done lots of drugs, had lots of people and drugs around my son,when i said enough is enough he took an overdose that was this easter weekend april 09, today he is saying if i dont hand over my son by 6pm tomorrow he is coming to take him away and ill never see him again, please help me quick?
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reader, amanda-polemania +, writes (17 May 2009):
amanda-polemania is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi just an up date, i am on the bidding list to get re housed and in the process of getting 3 orders placed on him, to stop him taking my son which he tried to do 2 weeks ago out my friends garden. we are both safe and well but its still not over! thank you for your replys.
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reader, amanda-polemania +, writes (15 April 2009):
amanda-polemania is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi, i got in touch with somerset change and the police and im off to stay with a friend, im seeing my solicitor tomorrow morning, thanks for your coments...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): POLICEPOLICEPOLICE!
DON'T TAKE THIS FROM HIM.
call the police right now. :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): He has proven not to be stable and the authorities will (I hope and believe) protect your child from being put in his care.You are in a tough spot (do you have family you can turn to/stay with) to protect yourself from him. Hang in there!!!! It will work out (stay strong) and know that you have people who care about you. You may also want to seek in addition to law enforcement a local church for support and advice as well. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): Go to the police now! I live in the US so I am not sure what kind of protective orders they have over there but you need to get one and fast! And until then NEVER be alone! Stay with family, do what you have to do! I would even see about filing some kind of harrassment charges against this man. Good luck and keep us posted on how this goes!
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reader, Georgie75 +, writes (15 April 2009):
You need to call the police or some close family members who you may be able to stay with for a while. He obviously needs professional help but you need to go somewhere safe with your son then call the authorities.
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