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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Alright basically Ive been hanging out with this girl for a long while.. she's basically always at my house... she even has sleepovers shes like family. My family basically grew up with her family so.. we somewhat became best friends... something even next to brother and sister. However I always felt something more then that for her. As we got older she got better looking. Now basically it first started a day when we were watching degrassi I was at her house in her room. We started messing around and I grabbed her and started tickling her... but as we were playing I started to get this insane feeling... in my chest/stomach..(it was overwhelming) and she wound up on top of me with her cheek on my cheek and we paused... didnt say anything for alittle while.. she just layed ontop of me.. my heart beating crazy fast.. and I could tell hers was too. I felt like I didnt want to let her go.. but I caught myself and tapped her and said are you ok. She said yes and then we just started watching the show again. Anyway to cut things short from some sleepovers and late night hangouts we engaged in some sexual activities.. we were always quiet about it and never talked about it.. it was just body language that spoke. However I started feeling guilty about the lack of communication and so I wrote her a letter saying that I knew her for so long I loved her and I shouldent have done those things and we should stop (at this point I didnt know if she wanted it cause the lack of communication). I made her read the letter in front of me and she smiled somewhat blushing came up to me and kissed me on the cheek. But then I noticed her dressing more provocatively around me.. and the activities started again. So to finalize things I told her how I felt about her through another note.. and told her to write back.. she never did.. but she still hangs out with me and talks to me.. and sometimes seems like she's trying to seduce me. Im so confused.. does this girl like me or no? I dont want to ruin our friendship.. which we still have after all of this.. however if this could be more I would love it. Its been a while since we engaged in any sexual activities.. the last time we did she sort of walked out perhaps because I brought it too far. So I stopped and we just hangout. However she still seems alittle too comfortable with herself around me... meening things like pulling up her pants so her legs are showing and putting them on or near my lap. stuff like that.Also just today we hungout.. and she was sitting right next to me.. I IM'd her saying "you scrub nub" as a funny tease that we say to each other. Before she left she wrote on her AIM status... "I think I wuvs you"... but she has other guy friends.. so Im not sure wtf is up arrghhh. Ive been crushed before so hoping it wont happen again. I dont know perhaps my question is 1. Does she like me? 2. What does it meen when you write a girl a letter confessing and she doesnt say anything back but continues to hangout with you? Is she afraid perhaps of what will come from this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010): i know you are shy and sensitive, but you need to ask her yourself face to face...no txts tweets notes or letters...just ask her.
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reader, Blondiebrooke69 +, writes (27 May 2010):
Well its probably her wanting to be ''chased'' so u realize wat u have and most girls flirt with other guys to make u want them more...i know sounds wierd but its true and maybe she doesnt quite love u yet and thats alot for her to handle so take it slow
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