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Does she really fancy me or is she just being desperate?

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Question - (10 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi guys

i met this girl at a party and she obviously fancies me but I don't fancy her.

she kept looking at me at the party and smiling and whispering to her friend and pulling me up to dance!

she has now tried calling me and asks me to go round her place. she also goes on about how she fancies me etc.

is she desperate?

does she really fancy me or is she just being friendly?

cheers!

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2007):

Why would she be desperate ? Se obviously fancys you and wants to get you into bed. If you dont fancy her, then tell her your not interested.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntI think she fancies you and since it's obvious you don't feel the same way the don't go round to her place etc. Eventually she'll work up the nerve to tell you how she feels or make a move and it wouldn't hurt to start thinking now about how to deal with that situation in a sensitive way that won't end up hurting her but definitely shows her that there's no way you'll ever be together. Good luck.

CD

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A female reader, baby blue fairy United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2007):

well she likes u but maybe shes just comin across as too affectionate. In some cases it's the opposite that is much worse! Don't let her force you yh if u like her then maybe but if ure only doing it cause shes up to it dont bother, just tell her straight but be careful, it may end in tears maybe not yours but still best of luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007):

She probably fancies you. Tell her that you don't fancy her back and tell her how you feel about the situation. Hopefully she'll leave you alone after that.

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