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female
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30-35,
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writes:I loved one boy and he said me that he doesn’t love me. Now after 9 months we are best friends and I find out that I still love him, but I didn’t tell him. One week ago he told me that he loves me while at a very romantic place and in a very romantic way. We were holding each others' hands in a river and he said to me that he wants us still to be friends--then he told me that he loves me. I was very upset and I started to shout at him how he could lie me on that way. He told me that he is only joking. When we were coming back he asked me what I would think of him if he tells me that all is truth. Few days ago he told me that I am the one person that he loved sincerely. I am very confused. Yesterday he told me that that thing he told me on the river is truth. I asked him again and he told me he loves me. The problem is that his friend loves me and one month ago I was his friend's girlfriend but I didn’t love him at all. And my friend loves him and he still is her boyfriend. But he doesn’t love her. He is going to break up with her. What should I do I want to be with him but no one agrees with that. I love him. I want to be with him but how should I tell him? Does he love me really? We are best friends. I am not showing any sings of love because I don’t want him to know I love him before I am sure he loves me. And today I asked him does he love ……… (but not my friend) and he said yes. Did he say that only to make me jealous or maybe he does not love me at all?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 You need to get this guy to tell you honestly whether he likes you or not. If he continues to play around with your feelings hunni tell him to leave you alone until he makes his mind up. He can't keep telling he loves you, then saying he doesn't mean it..... it's not fair. Maybe he's saying he doesn't mean them because he doesn't know how you feel. Explain that you like him but he has to commit his feelings not play you around!
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