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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes: I’m 16 and my bestfriend just recently turned 17. We are best friends. But recently, I have noticed some interesting things going on. He has been telling me that he loves me, he misses me, and lots of heart emojis. We have been bestfriends for almost a year. Everyone at my school makes fun of the fact how we are so close friends, always together, always hanging out outside of school but as of right now we are not dating. Everyone I have asked at my school thinks he is starting to like me more than a friend. Is he?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (7 September 2018):
It is impossible as strangers to know how he feels about you. The question is how do you feel about him? It is clear to see that you are both close, and yes he may very well like you. But can you see yourself dating him?
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male
reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (6 September 2018):
How do you feel about the words and emoji's he is using? How do you feel about transitioning from friends to dating?
What will happen next year when he is at University and you are in High School?
I'm sorry that I cant answer your question about his feelings. The truth is that other than him, you are the person who knows the most about how he feels. It's about time you practiced that most important of relationship skills, Communication, and talked to him about it. You might start with one of the questions I started this post with. I've got to say that no invitation to homecoming is not a very good sign. But a lot of people your age don't date. Some are not allowed to date. It can be a complicated question.
Summary: We don't know what he is thinking and we only have your report to judge by. The best way to find out what his thinking is to take a risk, and talk to him about it.
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