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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Does my best friend have feelings for me and should I make the move? It seems like the timing is right as we are both in the same place in our lives.-Known each other for 5 years and for the first two years we both had feelings for each other at different times but never expressed it to each other.- He invited me over to his parents house as the first friend to meet his brand new niece.- He says to me all the time "My brother and your sister say we should date and ask me all the time why we aren't together"- We both want to be in a relationship.- He is interested and curious in my love life. He makes comments about wanting to set me up with his friends and asks about my dates.- We talk about our futures and what we want out of life in jobs, relationships and family.- He would make plans with me go to the movies on a weekend night just the two of us then make other plans.Thoughts? Is the timing right and I should bring up having an honest conversation about our future together?
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reader, Trinklett +, writes (20 October 2011):
If he really is your best friend and you guys are always hanging out together, then its best to have this conversation so you know you're on the same page here. A straight forward guy would tell you outright what he's Intentions are. Hopefully, his thinking and feeling the same way.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (19 October 2011):
I guess you will never know what will be unless you are open and honest with him and talk to him. So yes talk to him and tell him how you feel and take things from there. Good luck.
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