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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Good day everyone!I need females and males to talk some sense into me. I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. This summer we are apart as I have an internship in another country. Yesterday, my girlfriend left with her family for a two-week vacation on the beach. So far today she has not sent me one text, no e-mails, nothing. I know she is in a hotel and that maybe she has no internet access, and that she may hesitate to use her mobile as she is in another country...I'm just so used to us texting each other love messages all day. I'm so incredibly worried that any lack of communication on her behalf might mean she is messing around... Ahhhh it's torturing me... I'm trying to relax, but I find it hard.Could you please give me hints as to how I should tackle this silly paranoia of mine? I have no reason to believe she is cheating on me as we tell each other everyday how much we love each other and how we would never do anything with someone else. We even talk about getting married some day.
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reader, anonomous_1  +, writes (19 July 2010):
You are in another country as you stated so it's normal not to communicate all day like you used to if she has never given you a reason to believe she is cheating than please trust her you don't want to start being paranoid over nothing because you can ruin a good relationship.Just relax because talking to eachother all day everyday is unhealthy anyway as you both can start to feel smothered and maybe the fact that you don't communicate as often will grow into you actually getting a chance to miss each other and bring you closer together
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reader, raiders +, writes (19 July 2010):
 Just relaxes and take under consideration that she is with her family. Most females have lots of respect for there families and will not act improper to have mommy happy and daddy proud, so don't worry about it. When she comes back you can have you all to yourself again, so just let her enjoy herself out there, you don't want her to think you are a control freak.
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