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anonymous
writes:God!I'm so confused the way a teacher act to me..I don't know if he see me as a woman or he see me as his student?I want help is he flirting me or not?I'm gone tell you some things to help me if he does or not?:When we are at the corridor he always see me secretly..and he do whatever to be more closer to me!He is stearing me all the time and when i catch him he turn his face..At class he talks to me as much as he can!He laugh when i say something!he smiles to me all the time..etcWhat can i do to see if he wants me? I really like him a lot!Firstly, he show he has a little "crash" on me and then i saw him as a man and not as a teacher..Don't tell me that i must see other guys at the same age with me..i don't want them..I prefer older men..(especially i prefer him!)..just because they are more mature..charmy...smart etcI know all this stuff that he will never stop his career because of a sweet student!I really don't want do that!And if we made a relationship i'm not stupid to tell it..Many girls in this forum are in that difficult situation!The good thing is that i'm not minor!That makes things easier!Can anyone give me a good advise?PLEASE!
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reader, meldel  +, writes (11 January 2009):
if your even asking this question...it's just a school girl crush...you know when someone loves you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): The best thing you can do is flirt with him, and see if he responds. Flirt with him like you would flirt with any other man you are attracted to and see how he responds. You could even go so far as to ask him to coffee or a drink. Give it a try and post back here to let us know he responded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is 10 years older than me..i'm 21 and he is 31!My real question is if he is flirting me or not...What do you say?i wrote some thingsI will graduate in 2 months, but he doesn't know it he think that i'll do and 2 years more!I can't talk to him about that..Firstly i'm to shy, secondly if he don't see me as i see him..Then it's gone be a hard moment for me..What can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): First, I must ask how old is this teacher? And how much older is he than you? A really big age difference may present problems later on if you decide to pursue a relationship with him.
I think the best thing to do is to talk to him privately and tell him how you feel, and ask him if he would be interested in seeing you. However, you will have to be very careful so as not to harm his career. It might be best to wait until you have graduated from high school so that a relationship with him will not create problems for him at school. Post back if you have more questions.
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