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writes: Is he falling for me?Iv'e been with my bf now for two months. When we first met we took it really slow. I think in the begining neither of us wanted a bf/gf relationship, so what we had was based on fun, company and sex. After about a month and a half i started to find myself liking him more than what i thought i would. this scared me as we had already had a lenghty conversation about not wanting anything heavy. I told him that i wanted to finish with him because i was starting to like him more than just a stop gap or a sexual partner. He wasnt too pleased with us finishing and said it wasn't a valid reason, and he decided that we should have a break until we both decided what we wanted. the break itself lasted a day! shocking i know. we met up for coffee, we kissed and he said we needed to talk more. later that week he said he had been thinking about what i said and he realised that he didnt want to loose me and asked if i would be happy to be his girlfriend, which i was. since then hes completly changed for the better. we see eachother practically everyday, even if it's just for a cuppa and we text all the time. sex has become more meaningfull( hugging tightly and falling asleep in eachothers arms) and he says he misses me when we arnt together. Whats the problem i hear you cry? well ive been down this road many times before, neither of us has said the L word, and rightly so, as it's way too early, but is he falling for me, or just playing a game to keep me there for the sex?
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reader, Ku5 +, writes (2 December 2005):
He wants the sex its very obvious you put out too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): Dear, you want gauruntees and there isn't any. Just take this day to day. And try not to over analyze your relationship or it will drive you bananas! Us girls tend to do that. No one can tell you what's in his mind and what he wants from you. Just realize, your relationship is still too new...so just go slow and build the trust for each other. Love is a risk and each time we step out with someone, we always take the chance of being hurt. That's life. So relax and just enjoy the ride...this could last another month, another year or the rest of your life. No one knows for sure... Best of luck, hun and be happy!
Hugs, Irish
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