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writes:Yesterday the guy I liked called me at 3 in the morning, so I was pretty tired. Basically, he wanted to know what I was doing and I told him I was thinking about if I liked this guy or not (which was him.) So it started becoming 20 questions where he'd ask and i'd answer...and I sort of dropped a lot of hints it was him. Eventually, I figured he knew I was talking about him...it was obvious. But he wouldn't tell me who he thought I was talking about. So he started dropping hints that "what if the guy doesn't like you back?" and this whole conversation went on. About how a girl would like him and he didn’t like them back and he’d just go out with them just to give them a chance.There were moments where he'd say, "And what if there's a really slim chance that he likes you back?" and stuff. Near the end, he told me, "Get to know him better...and hug him…” and stuff like that. It sounded like he knew it was him but was rejecting me in a way. So how do I get over him? ....or is there a chance he likes me back at all?Sorry it's so long. :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Many guys don't equate sex and love on the same level.At his age,his hormones would be running around like crazy.He seems like a player to me.Sweetheart I know you are young but never be just a female body for someone else.You will meet a guy who genuinely likes you.you have time.
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reader, newbeauty25 +, writes (19 June 2010):
hey hun,, this guy sounds like a game player..he called you at three in the morning because its sexual.. he knows your attracted to him and he sees you as a target to get his nocks off. your attractive and he wants to have you for his sex toy hes not the type that would get into a relationship. if you want to go on a couple of DATES( PLEASe be cautious to go out. if he doesnt ask you out ) what i am saying it will comfirm that.. he just trying to get a sexual relationship establish. please listen to everything he says carefully.. if he keeps bringing up"what if the guy doesnt like you back " this is him trying to passively tell you what he feels . im telling you from experience sweet heart .. try to do alot of listenng instead of talking and you will know exactly what you will need to do .
at the end of the day always try your best to keep your self resepect and dont allow people to take that from now. always remenber these people dont have to look in your eyes in the mirror you do.
be ture to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe told me that he's faced a lot of girls liking him and he goes out with them to give them a chance, but not all the time. But usually, that's how he deals with things. But I told him, I don't want to be dealt with that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010):
Oh Sweetie,
this has happened to me numerous times! The whole "I don't really like her, but I'll go out with her just cause" or to "make her happy".
I think that because he knows you like him, he's going for you just because. You'd be much better off finding a guy that really likes you. I'm sorry to be so honest.
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