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Does he really care, or is it just lust?

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Question - (13 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

If a guy gets hard almost every time he spends time with you and hugs you, does it mean that he's only driven by lust?

I have known this guy for over a year, and we have only recently started touching, I haven't kissed him yet, but will soon.

He has told me that he will never take advantage of me, and that he'll only go as far as I initiate. He has never touched me anywhere I have not put his hand myself.

Thank you very much, Merry Christmas.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008):

Hello everyone,

NOO, I am not trying to tease him, he is just the first guy I've ever really let touch me, and I haven't ever been kissed before.

I think I will kiss him though now, I surely want to. It was just kind of that "first time" thing, it sort of transferred to the "first kiss" sort of.

But you think there's no harm in a kiss?

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (13 December 2008):

shania agony auntKiss the guy for god's sake, put him out of his misery, otherwise your just teasing him.You either want him or you dont.

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A female reader, becca78 United Kingdom +, writes (13 December 2008):

It's arousal. He obviously finds you attractive. You've known him a long time and he's going at your pace, what's the problem? If it was just lust he'd probably have tried to push you a bit further by now!

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