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writes: If a guy gets hard almost every time he spends time with you and hugs you, does it mean that he's only driven by lust?I have known this guy for over a year, and we have only recently started touching, I haven't kissed him yet, but will soon.He has told me that he will never take advantage of me, and that he'll only go as far as I initiate. He has never touched me anywhere I have not put his hand myself.Thank you very much, Merry Christmas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): Hello everyone,
NOO, I am not trying to tease him, he is just the first guy I've ever really let touch me, and I haven't ever been kissed before.
I think I will kiss him though now, I surely want to. It was just kind of that "first time" thing, it sort of transferred to the "first kiss" sort of.
But you think there's no harm in a kiss?
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reader, shania +, writes (13 December 2008):
Kiss the guy for god's sake, put him out of his misery, otherwise your just teasing him.You either want him or you dont.
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reader, becca78 +, writes (13 December 2008):
It's arousal. He obviously finds you attractive. You've known him a long time and he's going at your pace, what's the problem? If it was just lust he'd probably have tried to push you a bit further by now!
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