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female
age
30-35,
*nonyous
writes:I like my flatmate at uni and he knows how I feel through a stupid mistake. However, yesterday on valentines day, my other two flatmates were going out with eachother and it was going to be just me and him alone. So he kept joking in front of everyone that me and him should go on a hot date. Why did he say that?But, then later on when i was in his room,he was joking and saying that i should take him out to dinner and i was saying that the guy should take the girl out. Then he said 'oh i miss stephanie'. Stephanie is a girl he brought back with him a couple of weeks ago, i am not sure if she is his girlfriend or if they are just good friends or what happened between them. However, then he said to me 'can you put on a mask and pretend to be stephanie and then i will take you out to dinner?' and i said 'no'. then he said 'only kidding, you will always be my favourite'. What does this mean, does he like stephanie or me? Also, he spent the whole night jokily saying, if you pay me i will get naked for you and kept on saying that we should have sex, if i paid him. Why???? What does he feel? Does he like me as just a friend or something more? Please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): He is what is know as a player! Yes, i would definately say he likes you sexually. Meaning if you guys got together it would be just a sex thing. I would not accept that, you sound like an itelligant girl who deserves so much more, one day you will find a guy that will take you out, treat you nice and make you feel special! bide your time, your worth it. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): To be honest, it seems like he likes you both. Honey, please don't waste your time on him. If he wants money to be involved in sexual acts then he can go to a strip club or a prostitute, not you. You deserve more than a guy that just treats women like he wants to treat them. Personally, I think he just wants a girl to play with and explore, let her play with him and explore, and then end he whole thing. He's nothing to be getting into, really honey. He wouldn't be good for you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 February 2008):
 He was just toying with your feelings like a cat and a mouse..
He was not serious with you but he was trying to take advantage of you.
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