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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my ex boyfriend broke up a couple months ago...i asked him if he wanted his things back that he gave me and he told me to keep them then he told me that maybe there is a chance of us getting back together but he has a girlfriend and is still saying that..do u think he might have feelings for me still but is just confused ?
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reader, louweez23  +, writes (21 May 2008):
 Oh. This very much sounds like me and my husband.
He's keeping his options open.
He doesn't want to sever all contact with you but also wants to see how things work out with this other woman.
He is confused, and the answer to your question depends on how much history you have together.
If there are ties (like a long realtionship, or kids) then I would say hang on in there but insist that you both go to counselling, HOWEVER, if there are no ties (or very loose one's) I think you can afford to issue the ultimatum i.e. That you want him to move his stuff out or you will take it to the local dump. If he then says there is a chance of you getting back together say "No there isn't because I have moved on and there are other men who are interested in you who won't appreciate having 'man stuff' at your place".
Hun if that doesn't work, then nothing will and you're kidding yourself.
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